Moving is stressful for adults. For children and pets, it can be overwhelming. New smells, strange faces, and the disappearance of familiar surroundings can unsettle even the calmest family member.
This guide covers how to prepare children and pets for a move, keep them comfortable on the day, and settle them into the new home quickly.
Before Moving Day: Talk to Children Honestly
Children handle change better when they know what to expect. Weeks before the move:
- Tell them about the move as soon as it is confirmed
- Explain why you are moving (school, work, more space)
- Show them photos of the new home and neighbourhood
- Let them help pack a box of their own things
- Answer their questions honestly
If the move involves a new school, arrange a visit before the move if possible.
Before Moving Day: Prepare Your Pets
- Update microchip details after the move
- Ask your vet for a copy of medical records
- Get any prescriptions transferred to a new vet
- Introduce your pet to their travel carrier or crate days before the move
- Keep feeding and walking routines consistent
Moving Day: Children
The best plan for children on moving day is to have them elsewhere. Arrange for them to be with a grandparent, family friend, or at nursery or school. This is safer and less stressful for everyone.
If they must be present:
- Give them a small job (holding a bag, showing the movers their room)
- Keep their favourite toys and blanket accessible
- Have snacks, drinks, and entertainment ready
- Stay calm yourself (they mirror your mood)
Moving Day: Pets
Pets should not be underfoot while movers are working. Options:
- Send your pet to a friend, relative, or boarding facility
- Confine them to a quiet room with water, food, and a litter tray or bed
- Put a sign on the door so movers do not open it
- Move pets last, once the property is empty and quiet
Never leave a pet in a car during the move, even in cool weather.
Travelling with Children and Pets
In the Car
- Use appropriate car seats or carriers
- Take breaks every 1 to 2 hours
- Pack snacks, water, and entertainment
- Keep a sick kit handy for travel sickness
By Train or Public Transport
- Book tickets in advance
- Keep pets in approved carriers
- Plan quiet routes with fewer changes
Never transport pets on public transport without checking the operator rules first.
First Night in the New Home
Children
- Set up their bedrooms first
- Make their beds with familiar bedding
- Keep favourite toys and nightlights accessible
- Read a bedtime story, even if you are exhausted
- Reassure them if they feel anxious
Pets
- Set up a quiet room with their bed, food, and water
- Keep them indoors for the first few days
- Introduce them to the garden or outdoor space gradually
- Watch for stress signs (hiding, not eating, excessive grooming)
First Week in the New Home
- Explore the neighbourhood together
- Find local parks, playgrounds, and pet-friendly areas
- Register with a new GP and vet
- Introduce children to neighbours or local clubs
- Maintain routines (meal times, bedtimes, walks)
Long-Distance Moves with Family and Pets
For moves over 100 miles, plan extra carefully:
- Break the journey into stages
- Book a pet-friendly hotel or stop
- Use a long-distance removals service for the bulk of your items
- Keep a small bag of essentials with you
When to Use a Professional Removal Team
Moving with children or pets is easier when professionals handle the heavy lifting. A team can load and unload the van while you focus on your family. See our house removals service for details.
Frequently Asked Questions
Should my children be at the move?
Ideally not. Arrange for them to be with family or at school on moving day. This keeps them calm and lets you focus on the move.
How do I move a cat or dog long-distance?
Use a sturdy carrier, take breaks, and keep water available. For very long distances, consider a pet relocation service. Never leave a pet in a parked car.
When should I tell my children about the move?
As soon as the move is confirmed. Giving them time to process is better than surprising them.
How do I help my pet settle into a new home?
Set up one room with familiar items first. Keep them indoors for a few days. Maintain feeding and walking routines.
Can movers transport pets?
No. Movers are not licensed to transport animals. Arrange pet transport separately.
Get Help With Your Family Move
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Written by the Vano Removals team. We help families move across London and the UK with care and professionalism.
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